Sounds like you're making a hobby out of staring at asphalt. Does it really quiet your brain, or does it just give you a new thing to overthink?

Finding good people online is a total gamble. Mary309, you nailed it about the risk factor. I only try it with friends of friends now, or in small travel groups where people have some history. The money saved is amazing but coming home safe matters more.

Damn, that's a good question. I've had moments like that too, where everything just clicks into place. Was there one thing that made you realize you could finally stop rushing?