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Sharing a room with my brother showed me how to give and take without words.
We just worked it out over time, and now I see how that shaped how I handle conflicts, what about you?
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the_tara5mo ago
Nah, it's not that deep. You just learn not to be a jerk. That whole silent language thing is just being a decent roommate. It's basic stuff, not some secret skill. Sure, it helps you pick your battles, but calling it training for life is a stretch. It's just living with another person.
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jana_baker6mo ago
It's like you learn a whole silent language, right? Dividing closet space or setting unspoken quiet hours teaches you to read a situation. Those tiny compromises built my patience for bigger stuff, like when my roommate and I had different cleaning habits. You just sort of develop a sense for when to push and when to let it go. Did you find those skills kicked in later with friends or partners too?
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quinn396mo ago
I get what you're saying jana_baker, but sometimes I wonder if we're overthinking it lol. Like, yeah you figure out how to live with someone, but calling it a "silent language" feels a bit deep. Those skills might help a little later on, but a partner is way different than a random roommate you got stuck with. Honestly, dealing with people at my warehouse job taught me more about real conflict than any quiet hour ever did. It just seems like basic being considerate, not some major life training.
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