What's the big deal with a seafood-scented fence?

That "burning out" comment from your manager is a HUGE red flag. I started saying "I can look at that next week" or "which of my current tasks should I move to make room" and it changed everything.

My buddy's book club had the same meltdown over that character last month. They spent an hour going in circles trying to label him a hero or a villain. The host got so stressed she almost called the whole thing off. Next week they just talked about the parts that stuck with them, no big plan, and it was way better. Sometimes you just gotta drop the deep take and let people say what they actually thought.