Yeah I used to think recipes should be free for everyone, but my grandma's mole incident changed my mind completely. Watching her face fall when she saw her sauce in some grocery store... it wasn't about food anymore, it was about taking a piece of our family story and selling it. Some things are just supposed to stay in the kitchen, passed down with the stories that go with them. Your mom's hurt makes sense, that recipe was a part of your family's private world.